#Abuse,#Marriage,#Respect,#Love,#Family
When I read about or hear about a woman being abused by a man it disturbs my spirit. What is even more disturbing is when it done by a man that says he is saved, loves Jesus or one that professes to be an Evangelist, Pastor, Prophet, Teacher or Apostle.
I have talked with women that have said and showed signs that their saved husband abused them. In public, he is the perfect brother. But at home, he is not.
This should not be.
Abuse can be physical or emotional. A lot of the abuse in by those that profess Christ is emotional. Yelling, down grading, jealously are all emotional abuse tactics. Making false accusations, making degrading comments are all emotional abuse tactics.
This should not be.
How can you speak and be kind to others, but talk in a degrading way to your spouse? How can you help others and then your wife is left to live like she is a single woman. If she speaks to another male, false accusations are made against her.
This should not be.
The Bible says, "Like wise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honor unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.: I Peter 3:7
The male can not expect the wife to be in subjection and obey his every command if he is not treating her the way the Bible says to treat her. The woman being the weaker vessel does not mean she ignorant. It means she is to be treated like something that is precious.
I Peter 3:1 is used all the time to support the man being over the wife and able to tell what to do and she has to obey. But when you read all of scripture as relates to marriage, the Bible does not teach this.
Yes, there are women that conduct themselves out of order and do things that cause harm to the male. It seems that the physical and emotional scars are the most visible in women.
Marriage is honorable in all and the bed undefiled;but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. Hebrews 13:4.
It is not matter of finger pointing either. It is a matter of obeying the Gospel of Jesus Christ and living a holy life. Confess sin and repent of it. This makes way for the Lord to deliver and save.
I John 2:1, "My little children, these things write I unto you, that ye sin not. And if any man sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous: and he is the propitiation for our sins: and not for ours only, but also for the sins of the whole world".
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I have talked with women that have said and showed signs that their saved husband abused them. In public, he is the perfect brother. But at home, he is not.
This should not be.
Abuse can be physical or emotional. A lot of the abuse in by those that profess Christ is emotional. Yelling, down grading, jealously are all emotional abuse tactics. Making false accusations, making degrading comments are all emotional abuse tactics.
This should not be.
How can you speak and be kind to others, but talk in a degrading way to your spouse? How can you help others and then your wife is left to live like she is a single woman. If she speaks to another male, false accusations are made against her.
This should not be.
The Bible says, "Like wise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honor unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.: I Peter 3:7
The male can not expect the wife to be in subjection and obey his every command if he is not treating her the way the Bible says to treat her. The woman being the weaker vessel does not mean she ignorant. It means she is to be treated like something that is precious.
I Peter 3:1 is used all the time to support the man being over the wife and able to tell what to do and she has to obey. But when you read all of scripture as relates to marriage, the Bible does not teach this.
Yes, there are women that conduct themselves out of order and do things that cause harm to the male. It seems that the physical and emotional scars are the most visible in women.
Marriage is honorable in all and the bed undefiled;but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. Hebrews 13:4.
It is not matter of finger pointing either. It is a matter of obeying the Gospel of Jesus Christ and living a holy life. Confess sin and repent of it. This makes way for the Lord to deliver and save.
I John 2:1, "My little children, these things write I unto you, that ye sin not. And if any man sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous: and he is the propitiation for our sins: and not for ours only, but also for the sins of the whole world".
www.steadfastapostolic.com
www.thereishope4.com
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